Monday, April 4, 2011

Is it too much to ask?!

For some intimacy from my husband? I know he works a lot and is tired and all that but gimme a break.

For the first 3-4 months of my pregnancy, we couldn't do anything because I was on pelvic rest. All I heard was how much he wanted me. And now it's like pulling teeth to get anything. Way to make your growing wife feel unattractive.

We had a talk about this a couple weeks ago and his complaint was that I didn't initiate enough or show HIM that I wanted HIM, so I worked on that. But yet, here we are again. He was off work for 3 days and kissed me MAYBE 5 times.... um, WTF?!

Of course, when I brought it up last night, it was ON. And it was AMAZING. But I don't want to have to complain or make a big deal of it for my husband to want to be intimate with me. I just don't get it... sex has NEVER been an issue for us.

It feels like the bigger I get, the less he wants me. He says that's not the case at all, but that's how it seems to me. I just need some lovin'!


  1. Awww. Is he maybe concerned about hurting you or Zachary?

  2. I don't know what his deal is...